How To Pick Up Females - Unclear Signals And Flirting

When we are talking about the subject of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was interesting and important enough to share.

To begin with, women have different personalities. What is being pointed out here is a type of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of actions is a little shaky. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to jump in.

The best way to deal with this personality type is when you see it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will feel at ease with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will usually skip out.

Problem is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So quite often you can get the opinion that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, alter your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will discover different personality types and possibly one that is more appropriate for you.

Now having said that, let's observe it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt mainly because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get an acceptance, to see if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a man they are only keen on being friends with.

One way to get better control of these conditions is to look at all the communication modes that a woman is using to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a girl likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you across all of the communications channels. When she is simply playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you realize a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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